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Paul turns to a real-life church problem: believers disagreeing over “disputable matters”—issues Scripture neither clearly commands nor forbids. In Rome, some Christians felt freedom to eat anything and treat all days alike, while others (with more tender consciences, often shaped by Jewish law or pagan backgrounds) avoided certain foods and still honored particular days (vv. 2, 5). Paul’s command is simple but challenging: welcome one another—not to argue and win, but to live in peace as one family (v. 1). The “strong” must not despise the “weak,” and the “weak” must not condemn the “strong,” because God has welcomed them both (v. 3). Ultimately, each believer is the Lord’s servant, and it is before Christ—not one another—that we stand or fall (v. 4).
Paul grounds this unity in the lordship of Jesus. None of us lives to ourselves, and none of us dies to ourselves—we belong to the Lord (vv. 7–8). Christ died and rose again to be Lord of the living and the dead (v. 9). That means judgmental attitudes are out of place: we will all stand before God’s judgment seat and give account of ourselves (vv. 10–12). So instead of “judging” each other, Paul says we should “judge” something else—make a careful decision to avoid putting a stumbling block in a brother’s path (v. 13).
In the second half, Paul clarifies that nothing is unclean in itself (v. 14), yet conscience matters: if someone believes an action is wrong, to do it anyway is sin for them (vv. 14, 23). Love must govern liberty. If your freedom grieves or pressures a fellow believer, you are no longer walking in love (v. 15). The kingdom of God is not about food and drink, but about righteousness, peace, and joy in the Holy Spirit (v. 17). Therefore, we pursue what makes for peace and mutual upbuilding (v. 19), willingly limiting our freedoms when needed so we don’t harm God’s work in others (vv. 20–21). Faithful maturity doesn’t flaunt freedom—it uses freedom to serve.
🌀 Reflection:
Are you more passionate about being “right,” or about building up your brother or sister? Romans 14 calls us to hold convictions with humility, to honor conscience, and to measure our “freedom” by love. Real maturity looks like Jesus—strong enough to lay down rights for the good of others (vv. 15, 19).
💬 Mission Challenge:
Reach out to a believer whose preferences or convictions differ from yours. Listen without mocking or correcting, and encourage them in what you share in common—Jesus is Lord, and you both belong to Him (vv. 8–9). Then choose one practical way this week to pursue peace and build them up (v. 19).
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Just Keith Harris 
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