“Who Are You? Part 1” — a Refresh & Restore Bible Study

Do not lie to one another, seeing that you have put off the old self with its practices 10 and have put on the new self, which is being renewed in knowledge after the image of its creator. 11 Here there is not Greek and Jew, circumcised and uncircumcised, barbarian, Scythian, slave, free; but Christ is all, and in all.

12 Put on then, as God’s chosen ones, holy and beloved….[1]

Colossians 3:9-12

17 Now this I say and testify in the Lord, that you must no longer walk as the Gentiles do, in the futility of their minds. 18 They are darkened in their understanding, alienated from the life of God because of the ignorance that is in them, due to their hardness of heart. 19 They have become callous and have given themselves up to sensuality, greedy to practice every kind of impurity. 20 But that is not the way you learned Christ!— 21 assuming that you have heard about him and were taught in him, as the truth is in Jesus, 22 to put off your old self, which belongs to your former manner of life and is corrupt through deceitful desires, 23 and to be renewed in the spirit of your minds, 24 and to put on the new self, created after the likeness of God in true righteousness and holiness.[2]

Ephesians 4:17–24

"Adorned with the Word" from Colossians 3:15-17 (Refresh & Restore: Colossians — Jesus Over All) Refresh & Restore | A JustKeithHarris.com Podcast

Today's podcast is a Bible study looking at what it means to let the Word of Christ dwell in us richly — to understand what it means for our churches. Your can find the written version of this Bible study here at JustKeithHarris.com, complete with cross-references and footnotes.
  1. "Adorned with the Word" from Colossians 3:15-17 (Refresh & Restore: Colossians — Jesus Over All)
  2. "Adorned with Thankfulness" from Colossians 3:15-17 (Refresh & Restore: Colossians — Jesus Over All)
  3. Advent 2023 — Christmas, December 25 | "The Light of the World is Here!"
  4. Advent 2023 — Christmas Eve, December 24 | "Good News of Great Joy, or The Weary World Rejoices"
  5. "A Tale of Two Saviors (Really, the One and Only)" from Luke 2:1-12 (Refresh & Restore)

Greetings Sojourners!

Y’all, I had a really clever introduction to this week’s Bible study. It was so clever that I was proud and sure that it would be quite convincing. Then, I was convicted. The Bible does not need me to be clever to make it living, active, and sufficient (Hebrews 4:12, 2 Timothy 3:16); it is all those things and more because it is the Word of God. As my pastor says, if you win someone with an argument (or clever in this case), you will have to keep them with an argument, but if you win them with Christ, He will keep them.

Now, there is nothing inherently wrong with cleverness. The issue, as I mentioned a few Bible studies ago, is pride. I like to write. I know God can use these Bible studies to help people. I like being clever, from time to time when I can actually pull it off, but it is inherently foolish for me to think that a quippy well-written introduction is going to convince you to either live the way the Bible teaches if you are saved or, if you do not know Christ, come to Him. His Spirit through the preaching, teaching, writing about His Word does the work. What is inherently wrong with my approach is in how it is similar to the way contemporary churches approach the work of the Word. We believe the Bible has these lists of things we should not do. We are good at telling people that. But our lives simply do not match with what the Bible says life in Christ looks like. That is a problem.

I have also found it very difficult to get this particular Bible study out to you. I toiled over it for a few weeks because I wanted to make sure I was carefully communicating the message. Then, we had to move out of our house for a few weeks while our air conditioning was being repaired, meaning that I was away from my usual means of producing these Bible studies. That led me to look at it more and more and essentially just accept that it was not yet the right time for this Bible study to be published. Thankfully, it is time – the right time – for us to dive into these texts.

So, rather than the song and dance of my clever introduction, I think it wiser to just go for it: Who are you?

Seriously, who are you? Whose are you?

The answer to those questions matters. Who and whose you are is answered in today’s passage which bridges the sinful-things-to-take-off section (Colossians 3:5-9) with the upcoming Christlike-things-to-put-on section (Colossians 3:12-14). Lord willing, today we will see and come to understand that those who are in Christ have a “new self” made “after the image of its creator” (Colossians 3:9-10), see who we are not as a lens for whose we are (Colossians 3:11), and realize all those who are in Christ are “God’s chosen ones, holy and beloved” (Colossians 3:12).

I Am a New Creation (vv. 9-10)

When I think of new life in Christ or being a new creation, I am always reminded of Paul’s words to the church at Corinth in 2 Corinthians 5:17:

“Therefore, if anyone is in Christ, he is a new creation. The old has passed away; behold, the new has come.”

Those words, along with “new self” in v. 10 and Ephesians 4:24, give us a picture of what Jesus has done for those who have confessed Him as Lord and believed in Him: they are born again.

This is more than just church-talk, this is how Jesus Himself described what being saved is in John 3:1-21. Unless one has been “born again he cannot see the kingdom of God” (John 3:3). Because of His great love (Ephesians 2:4), God sent His only Son to be lifted up to die in our place on the cross – taking our sin and bearing the wrath of God due it (Romans 5:8-9), and “whoever believes in Him should not perish but have everlasting life” (John 3:16). This is more than vivid imagery or something that preachers use to get people to walk an aisle; it is real and really happens in the lives of those who are saved by grace through faith in Christ.

Some misunderstand this or underestimate God’s power to change people based on the way that some church folks masquerade as Christians. In fact, the word Christian has little to no real meaning in some places because of how it gets linked to the way Christian is used in some cultures or politically. To understand what Christian means and how it came to be used to describe those who had been saved, we need to look at how the Bible uses it. Did you know that the word “Christian” was first used in Antioch as a hateful slur and derogatory term for Christ-followers (Acts 11:26)? And did you know that “Christian” only appears three times in the Bible?

  1. It appears in Acts 11:26 where we learn of its origin when those who were part of the church in Antioch were mocked for believing and called little Christs, which is what the word literally means.
  2. It is next used in Acts 26:28 after Paul had poured out his heart in sharing the gospel to King Agrippa who responded: “In a short time would you persuade me to be a Christian?” Paul’s response to the king showed the heart of Christ as he said, “Whether short or long, I would to God that not only you but also all who hear me this day might become such as I am – except for these chains” (Acts 26:29). He wanted them to have all of Christ and none of what he was suffering.
  3. Finally, it appears in 1 Peter 4:16 where Peter tells these exiled Jewish Christians that “if anyone suffers as a Christian, let him not be ashamed, but let him glorify God in that name.” Peter was writing to people who had been dispersed across Asia-Minor who, if they genuinely bore fruit of Christ making them a new creation, would stick out from the extremely religious pagan society like sore thumbs and draw attention to the difference between knowing Christ and merely calling oneself a Christian (Ephesians 4:20-21).

In each of those instances, those who were known as Christians – by reputation not identification – had been recognized for being like Christ. Now, their reception by the world was not good or pleasant – but it was the same way they the world treated Jesus (John 15:18-25)! I have shared several times over the past few Bible studies how there is grace despite our sin and not dependent on our perspective, but it needs to be said without any condemnation that there should be some Christ visible in your life. Those who are saved and filled with the Holy Spirit bear fruit of the eternal life that is reminiscent of the life Christ lived on (Galatians 5:22-23, John 15:5). But, as I mentioned above with people masquerading as Christians, there is little Christ to be seen in some who claim to be little Christs. It should not be so.

If one is in Christ, the old is supposed to have passed away (2 Corinthians 5:17). The sin in the lives of Christians is to be put to death (Colossians 3:5) and/or put away (Colossians 3:8). Our testimony should be that we “once walked” in these sins (Colossians 3:7) because we should “no longer walk in them” (Ephesians 4:17) – “that is not the way you learned Christ” (Ephesians 4:20)! This is not judgment, speaking out of a place of negativity, or me trying to bash your life. This is me begging from the depth of my spirit for people who claim Christ to inspect the fruit in their lives. I beg, remind, and plead because it really is eternal life or death. And it is truly a gift to have “eternal life through Jesus Christ our Lord” (Romans 6:23).

Look at the way Paul described it to the church at Colossae. He told them that there should be a difference in the way that they spoke to one another before and after. He told them in v. 8 that they needed to put the sin of “obscene talk” from their mouths and reminds them in v. 9 that they should not “lie to one another, seeing that you have put off the old self with its practices”. He is communicating to the Colossian church that when they sin, they should recognize it the same as they would if they were wearing disgustingly filthy clothing: take it off (repent) and “put on the new self, which is being renewed in knowledge after the image of its creator” (Colossians 3:10). Essentially, this looks like searching within ourselves and removing everything that does not resemble Christ and putting on everything we can that does resemble Christ. If this is something you balk at or think is useless, there is a problem. If you have been convinced that Christianity is merely fire insurance and that no change happens, there is a problem. Perfection is a pipe dream, yet we should seek not to sin; the differences is that when those who are in Christ sin, they “have an advocate”: “Jesus Christ the Righteous” (1 John 2:1)! The new life lived comes from Christ. The power and drive to live it comes from His Spirit within those who are saved. That is not perfection or our own righteousness; it is a life that points to Jesus, even when we fail.

Look at the way Paul described it to the church at Ephesus. He told them that their former manner of life was to be in the past with all its ignorance, distance from God, and callous attitude toward others (Ephesians 4:17-19). It almost reads like sarcasm when Paul tells them that continuing to live as they did before Christ is “not the way [they] learned Christ! – assuming that [they had] heard about Him and were taught in Him, as the truth is in Jesus” (Ephesians 4:20-21). Essentially, Paul presents it as either a before picture or an after picture. You are either in Christ, putting off your “old self, which belongs to your former manner of life and is corrupt through deceitful desires” or you are putting on the “new self, created after the likeness of God in true righteous and holiness” (Ephesians 4:22-24). If you are all former and nothing new is within you, there is a problem.

Who are you? Whose are you?

Wrapping Up

I mentioned in the introduction how the time just was not right for this Bible study to be published over the past few weeks. I am thankful for that time to reflect on my own life in Christ and to prayerfully work through what it is to be a new creation – to plead and encourage people to do the same in their own lives. Then, last Sunday morning, my pastor, John Goldwater, was preaching from Matthew 22:1-14 regarding the parable of the wedding feast and the application and invitation struck me. John paused at the man who showed up to the wedding feast in inappropriate attire – how he should have been properly clothed in wedding garments (that can only come from being in Christ). I was reminded how today’s and next week’s passages fit in between the sin we need to take off and the Christ-likeness we need to put on – how our sin poorly clothes us but Christ covers us.

Check out how John put it:

My point is [Jesus] wasn’t talking about clothes. He used clothes as an illustration. They all understood if he was going [to the wedding feast from] working out in the field and … was dirty, messy – that you would go by the house – you’d clean up – you’d put on different clothes before you came to the wedding feast. Well, this man, he got into the wedding feast, but he didn’t have wedding garments on.

And here’s the difference. This is what he did. He tried to get into God’s party still wearing fig leaves like Adam and Eve because he hadn’t been by God to get the skins of covering (Genesis 3:7, 21).

He tried to come into the wedding feast his own way.

He tried to be like Joshua, the son of Jehozadak (Zechariah 3:1-10) – high priest during the time of Zechariah, who was covered in filthy clothes with the devil at his right hand accusing him of all these things until God said, “Devil, shut up; take those dirty clothes off him and give him clean clothes.”

You know where we get our clean clothes from? We get our clean clothes…. We don’t get them at Stubb’s, although that’s a fine place to get clothes. We don’t get them at Walmart, although that’s a fine place to get clothes. We don’t get them at Goodwill over in Oxford, although that’s a fine place to get good, affordable clothes. We get them when we have our meeting with God and … confess our way is sinful, and He takes off our old clothes and … gives us new.

He tells us in Colossians (ch. 3:5-14) – and we’ve been hearing this … from Keith, we’ve been reading it – that we put off the old man, we put off the old ways, and we put on Christ.

In Romans chapter 13 … [v]erse 14 says this: Put on the Lord Jesus Christ and make no provisions for the flesh to fulfill its lusts. That’s what He’s talking about.

You wanna know what He’s talking about with these clothes? He’s talking about 1 John 1:9: If we confess our sins, He is faithful, He is just to forgive us our sins and to cleanse from all unrighteousness.

You don’t get to set at the table before you visit the Savior and He changes your clothes. He changes your heart, changes your mind, saves your soul.

You don’t get there just cause you heard the invitation. You gotta receive the invitation. Come to Him for cleaning and made fit for the Kingdom of God, and nobody can make you fit for the Kingdom of God but Him.

So, here’s what I want to know. Today, have y’all – as a church, have you? as an individual – have you answered the invitation of grace, not taken it lightly, not decided to put it at the back of the line – the … back burner and put it out of your mind at the bottom of everything. Have you answered and taken [it] seriously – the invitation of grace to be saved … – that invitation and be glad about it? Have you come to Jesus and allowed Him to change who you are? To make you born again?

That idea of new clothes, it’s not just about taking one system off and putting a new system on. It’s about a new heart. It’s about a new soul. It’s about a new you. It’s about being born again.

You see, asking yourself who you are or whose you are is not to be taken lightly. It is more than simply stopping certain sins and starting certain acts of righteousness. It is about coming to Christ and Him saving you – Him making you born again – Him making you a new creation.

You might be wondering why this is such a big deal to me or why I am digging into this so much. I do not want you to be able to get the impression that being a Christian is something you can do. It is not humanly possible. I do not want you to get the idea that the works – both sins you quit and righteous ways you live – earn anything. They are proof, fruit, of what He has done inside of you.

If you read this and know you are His, but your life is steeped in dirty laundry, confess your sins to Him, repent of them, and He is “faithful and just to cleanse you of all unrighteousness” (1 John 1:9). Trust that His ways are best and that He can produce His works, His fruit, in your life.

But if you read this and realize that you are not saved – that you have never been born again, that is not necessarily bad news. It means that there is an opportunity to come to Christ, for Him to save you. If you have questions about what it is to be saved or how to be saved, I would love to talk with you or point you to someone in your area who can show you in the Word how to be saved. If you have questions, I would love to help point you to Christ and see what His Word says. Who are you? Whose are you? I pray that the Lord helps you answer these questions today.


[1] The Holy Bible: English Standard Version (Wheaton, IL: Crossway Bibles, 2016), Col 3:9–12.

[2] The Holy Bible: English Standard Version (Wheaton, IL: Crossway Bibles, 2016), Eph 4:17–24.




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